a daughter's a daughter all her life...

...a son's a son till he takes a wife. Ever heard that phrase before? Well I'm starting to really feel it's true. I've been married for almost 3 years now but still feel like a little kid to my parents. They still do things for me which frustrates Andrew. It's just their way of helping us but he feels like they don't trust him to take care of me. I think they'll always be this way. It's good and bad I suppose. It's making me nervous to move back home though. I don't want my parents to think they have control over what decisions Andrew and I make, but I also don't want them to dis-involve themselves....is that a word? I cherish the relationship I have with my parents. I think it's great how close we are and how no matter how old I get or what happens, I know they'll always be there for me. So what if they found a moving van for us even though we told them we'd take care of it. So what if they want to help us out financially even though Andrew wants to handle it on our own. So what if they are taking a week off work to help load the truck and move us back and his parents aren't able to. They care. It's not a control issue. I will always be their baby girl and they will always feel they need to take care of me. Is that so wrong?